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Everyone likes to believe that the relationship they are in is a healthy relationship, but the fact is that many are not. If you want to stop pretending and truly have a wonderful, loving, respectful relationship than look over this list of some tips that will help you achieve that goal.

1. We all feel the temptation to ‘put our best foot forward’ and while that isn’t a bad thing, it’s very easy to take it too far and not really be who you truly are. It’s one thing to use your best manners, but it’s another to pretend you like something that you don’t really like.

When you project a false image of who you really are, you are just setting yourself up for disappointment. You will either have to maintain that phony persona forever or you will eventually have to let your partner see the real you.

Either way it’s not a good situation to be in. Be yourself. You have to have confidence in who you are and if you aren’t confidant enough to be yourself you should hold off dating until you can work on you for a while first.

One of the basic cornerstones of a solid relationship is when both of you accept the other person just as they are. If your partner is constantly trying to make you someone else why would you waste your time? Let them go off and find their perfect someone and you do the same. If they truly love you, then they’ll truly love you and all that you are…good and bad.

2. Learn how to communicate with each other. This is all about talking and listening. It’s about building trust so that you can each have a safe place to express yourself openly and without having to fear being mocked or ridiculed. It’s about finding a healthy way to communicate when something your partner has done bothers you. It’s not about screaming, yelling, getting angry and defensive. If the two of you can learn how to communicate properly, with respect and maturity, you will be well on your way to a great, loving relationship.

3. There is a saying that opposites attract, and that can be true, to a point. The fact of the matter is that while someone who is very different from you might seem exciting and unique at first, over a long time that ‘uniqueness’ can grow very old.

If you and your partner don’t agree on the core things than you are likely to have a very rocky relationship. The two of you don’t have to agree on everything, and as long as you’re both mature enough to respect each other’s opinions, that’s fine. But you should have core values that are similar. For example, religious beliefs, beliefs about fidelity, desire to have children or not, what you consider right and wrong, etc. If your core values are not in sync than you will have a hard time seeing each others point of view and it will lead to a lot of fights.

So many people waste so much time trying to make a bad relationship work when they could have been spending that time in a fun, loving, respectful, healthy relationship if they’d just been a little more careful who they picked for their partner. It’s not about finding someone who is perfect, it’s about finding someone who is perfect for you.

The man who wrote The Magic of Making Up is just an everyday kind of guy. T Dub has experience, and that’s all he has. But if you read the testimonials on his website, you’ll see that he really is able to make relationships work. If you’re not as happy with your relationship the way you once were, you may really need his help. Listen to his advice because he really does know what he’s talking about. He is an expert because he has studied life. Though he may not have the education that the therapists have had, he is able to read people and understand their actions. And like his chosen career path, the advice he gives and the methods he uses are very unconventional.

Relationship counselors and charge $50 to $100 an hour for and you are sometimes required to go more than once. With this system, you only need a one-time payment of $39. You learn so much more through experience. He understands more than you think because life is his teacher. For that reason, you can believe his credibility. The instructions are easy to follow and he presents you with the perfect recipe right here. The new world requires new ideas. Conventionality no longer works and that is why you should consider looking into his wisdom.

The methods presented are easy to follow because you’re not required to swallow your pride. His strategies are surprising but just as effective. Download it now and create your very own happy relationship that surpasses the test of time.