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These “10 romantic fun ways to get my ex back” can help you get back together and have a healthier relationship. But there’s no promise any of these will work 100% of the time. You know your ex better than anyone else, so you know which tips might be more in line with their personality.

1. Send a bouquet. Whether it’s flowers or a balloon bouquet, if you time this right this can help you make a real impression with your ex.

2. Send one of the cards that opens to a song or a line from a TV show or film that really suits your ex. Whether it’s for a birthday or a holiday, choose a comical, sweet or tender card to make the day special.

3. Ask your ex on a date, but make it clear there’s no pressure. You just want to spend some time together as friends. Choose a very low-pressure and fun place like the zoo, an arcade or one of those pizza parlors with the arcade games and singing characters that are aimed at kids.

4. Write a love letter. Writing a letter will let you express yourself in ways you might not be comfortable doing face to face. Tell your ex just how much you care and what they mean to you. But remember that everything you write down can be read by other people besides your ex.

5. Write a poem. Writing poetry to your ex is like writing a love letter. It can be much more romantic if you say the right things. Don’t undervalue the power of humor. You probably can’t write like Shakespeare so don’t even try. But make it sweet and funny and your ex should appreciate it.

6. Ask your ex to join you on a spa date. This works very well when your ex is a girl. Make appointments for you both to have your hair cut, your nails done and to get a massage or facial. Doing it together is an enjoyable way to have time to talk and relax.

7. Ask your ex out on a theme date. Eat spaghetti and watch The Lady and the Tramp. Eat hamburgers, fries and shakes and watch American Graffiti. The point is to plan something fun and lighthearted.

8. Take your ex with you to an animal shelter and spend an afternoon walking the dogs and playing with the cats.

9. Go to an amusement park together. Ride the scariest rides and have your pictures taken with your faces sticking in the holes of those wooden cutouts that make you look silly. Have fun without pressure on your ex about getting back together.

10. Re-create your first date. This is a good choice when things are going well and you feel like getting back together is within your reach.

At least one of these “10 romantic fun ways to get my ex back” tips is sure to give you both a really good time together.

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When facing the difficult task of healing relationship wounds, it’s necessary to understand you will need to invest quite a bit of time and effort. It is possible to mend a relationship, but it won’t necessarily be quick and easy, and you won’t be able to do it all on your own.

There are several steps you’ll need to take to repair your broken relationship. A lot of what you will have to do will depend on what caused the relationship to break down in the first place. In most cases, the breakdown hasn’t been caused by only one or two things, and it may be that an accumulation of smaller issues eventually tore your relationship apart.

Finding the cause of the break down is the first thing you will need to do in order to come up with a ‘game plan’ to fix it. You wouldn’t expect your mechanic to fix your car without first knowing what was wrong with it, and the same principle applies to your relationship.

Not only will you need to figure out what went wrong, you will need to be honest with yourself and try to figure out what part you played in it. That can be quite difficult, but very worthwhile.

No one wants to admit they’ve been wrong or made mistakes, but you need to really look inside yourself and determine if your actions may have contributed to the problem. Also look at how you may have reacted to your ex verbally. Words can be extremely hurtful, and when that happens, it can take a long time for the hurt to heal.

Once you’ve figured out the mistakes you may have made, it’s up to you to determine if you’re willing to invest the time needed to fix them. If you can’t make a 100% commitment to changing your behavior than you might as well end the relationship right now. There’s no point in dragging you and your partner through further pain.

But before you do anything, think about whether or not your partner would be willing to work on the relationship too. No matter how sincere or motivated you are, it needs both of you working together to get things back to a good place. You can’t do it alone, and neither can your partner. If you aren’t both 100% committed to making it work, it’s time to move on.

If you both believe your relationship is truly worth saving, you can fix the relationship and even make it better than it was before. It will take some time…and lot’s of love.

For more tips like these, check out this guide to repairing your relationship.